Being a guy I can understand what it feels like when a cute/Sexy/awesome girl passes you by. For that moment, the world does seem to pause. Everything can wait. The people standing behind you in que at the ATM, your friend giving you a piece of advice (if he's a guy, chances are he's looking too) or in some cases your girlfriend who's been trying to get her point across (not a wise move on the guy's part here), all are secondary. As long as your intentions are cool( even if they aren't, as long as you keep them to yourself), you're good. If you DO decide to comment, publicly at that, two words. YOU SUCK.
Everybody likes to be complemented. Nobody likes to be pointed and shouted at. The shouting here refers comments like "Maal" or some other ridiculous stuff people say. Fun is what they call it. I call it stupidity. Many guys who read this may condemn me for it. It's normal they say. Everybody does it. I agree. But it doesn't mean that its right. How would you like it if somebody points across to you and shouts " Oi! Big fat man! You're a douche!" Not very polite is it? Most people will fight tooth and nail cause of that.
I remember this incident, where there was this female. She is a post graduate student. She was passing by when a couple of classmates (total morons) started calling out names of well known porn stars. No other way to put it. Felt bad at that. Quite embarrassed. Though the woman ignored ( I doubt she had ever heard of those names), I felt sad for the society.
The fact is that we do live in a male dominated society. I'm a guy, and personally I don't bother with the endless gender battle. You can expect women, girls to talk about the eve teasing issue, rarely a guy. Especially a person like me who maintains a distance. But I guess it has to come from both sides to stand up to those few chauvinist idiots who give guys a bad name.
Just a social message from a common observer. GOOD DAY..
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